
My Bloggie friend, Val, has chosen me as a recipient of the “Nice Matters Award”. "This award is for those bloggers who are nice people; good blog friends and those who inspire good feelings and inspiration. Also for those who are a positive influence on our blogging world. Once you've been awarded please pass on to seven others whom you feel are deserving of this award".
I have been “visiting” Val now for about a year and have been touched and inspired by her writings. She is a Godly woman, a wife and a mother to two daughters. I have learned from my regular visits that she is a woman who loves deeply – God and her family. I’m glad that she thought my blog was also worth the “Nice Matters Award”.
That I would get her message today about the award seems most appropriate. My family and I are members of LifeChurch and right now our Pastor, Craig, is presenting a series of lessons titled “30 Days To Live”. I have talked about this series of lessons before, but also wanted to mention our lesson this morning.
The series focuses on the question, “If you had only 30 days to live, would you change anything about your life?’ Craig’s message today was a reminder to say everything we wanted to say to loved ones, or to embrace every opportunity to share God’s wonderful love and his message of life while we have time.
”Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered, and that my life is feeling away. My life is no longer than the width of my hand. An entire lifetime is just a moment to you; human existence is but a breath.” Psalm 39:4-5 NLT
Craig talked about “meetings” in which he was asked, at the end of someone’s life on this earth, to give a special message about that person. A message shared with those attending this special meeting in honor of the deceased. There were “horribly wonderful” (Craig’s words) funerals and others that were just “horrible”. Those “horribly wonderful” meetings consisted of family members and friends having beautiful memories to share about the person – complete with tears, laughter and celebration. There were those that were just “horrible” in which family members and friends could hardly find anything about the person that was worth sharing – or evening remembering.
Craig encouraged us to think about what our legacy would be when our “meeting” was held. Would it be “horribly wonderful” with shared memories and loving moments of our time here on earth? Would we have taken the time, while still able, to say to our loved ones what was most important for them to know – or would we wait – until there was no time left in which to say those things?
”My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my words. Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; for they are life to those who find them and health to a man’s whole body. Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” Proverbs 4:20-24
Nice does matter and it matters whether or not we say and do the things God wants us to do while we’re here. Nice matters each and every moment because we do impact lives – even without being aware of it.
”However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me-the task of testifying to the gospel of God’s grace.” Acts 20:24
I was not raised in a household where there was shown a lot of outward demonstrations or vocalization of love. I knew my parents loved me but because it wasn’t demonstrated outwardly, I have always had to make a conscious effort to show my own children my love for them through hugging and kisses. I can tell them much easier and try to tell them a lot! I want my children to always know how much I love them and how very proud I am of each one of them just as God showed the world His love for His son.
When all the people were baptized, it came to pass that Jesus also was baptized; and while He prayed, the heaven was opened.
And the Holy Spirit descended in bodily form like a dove upon Him, and a voice came from heaven which said, “You are My beloved Son; in You I am well pleased.” Luke 3:21,22
I want to live my life, each day, as if it could be the last day – because it could be! LifeChurch has a site with helpful ideas and inspiration from others to help and guide you when you think about the things that are most important to you. You can find it here at www.30daystolive.tv. I know that this series is definitely changing the way I define my life and the legacy I want to leave behind.
Thanks, Valerie, for the award and here are my choices for others who know that “Nice Matters”.
1. Natalie – a single mom, raising her children, one of whom has been diagnosed with Type I diabetes. Natalie talks about the many aspects of this disease and how she and her daughter deal with it every day. I just recently met Natalie, in real life, even though I have known her parents for several years. I attended church with her parents and know them to be wonderful, loving followers of Christ.
2. Elizabeth – my daughter. She is always ready to share her faith in the Lord and also ready to share tips on parenthood, childcare and many others subjects which she is passionate about! I talk about her a lot! I am so proud of the woman she is – her faith, the way she is as a wife, a mother, and the way she lovingly cares for the children in her home daycare. I am blessed over and over by the things she has taught me!
3. Michael – Elizabeth’s husband, my son-in-law. Michael came into Elizabeth and Addy’s lives, becoming a family in the Lord. Michael is such a strong believer – in God and in his responsibilities to his family. He works hard to take care of “my” girls – both spiritually and financially. He believes in Elizabeth and values her as a mother, encouraging and supporting their home daycare, home schooling, and their service to the Lord. He has a heart of gold and I’m thankful that they are in his care.
4. Julie – Natalie’s sister. Julie is a young, stay at home mom to seven (7) – yes, 7 children. She writes about her life in a way that makes it seem like having 7 children, a husband, and building a new house is a breeze! I told her once – in a comment on her blog – that if she ever decides to mentor others – I’m in line! I am old enough to be her mother, but she definitely has a lot of wisdom and I feel inspired and blessed each time I visit.
I know I’m supposed to pass this award to seven others, but honestly, I don’t know a lot of bloggers. I visit a lot of blogs and have a list of those that touch me – but I don’t feel that I know the writers well enough to pass on this award. So my list is short – but each one of the bloggers has touched my life in a meaningful way!